Abstract
This article explores the development and impact of a profound interfaith friendship between an American Christian and an Indonesian Muslim, highlighting collaborative efforts to promote mutual understanding and respect amidst diverse religious backgrounds. The authors recount their individual journeys, their own cultural exchanges, and the challenges they have faced in bridging religious divides. By way of both academic analysis and personal reflections, the authors emphasize the importance of authentic, humble, listening religious dialogue, the limitations of secularism in accommodating deep religious convictions, and the transformative potential of interfaith solidarity and openness. The authors advocate for a conceptual shift from bounded to centered sets in religious identity, suggesting that genuine devotion and service to humanity do a better job of defining religious belonging. This approach aims to foster inclusivity without compromising individual faith tenets, offering a model for peaceful coexistence and cooperative action in pluralistic societies.

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Copyright (c) 2026 Lindy Backues, Achmad Munjid
